I just realized that with all the things we talk or blog about, love is the most misused of all the found subjects on the internet. So me, being a champion of Love, Truth, Peace, Freedom & Justice, decided that I better start off my blogging career stating my case for love. Everybody else is stating theirs, why not let mine out? Right? Let’s see.
“Love is giving, seeking nothing in return.”
I fell for, adopted & integrated this definition into my life sometime in 1992. I was in a bookstore that’s not there anymore & bought a book that I don’t own anymore (let somebody borrow it, you know how that goes) and the definition was on the very first page, even before the table of contents. I didn’t even look @ the table of contents after that, I just bought the book. (along with a few others) When I got home & started to read, there was a chapter called “Sex Equated with Love”. Well, @ the ripe old age of 22 or so, I KNEW I was in love with sex
so I knew this chapter was for me. Man did I get my boat rocked. This very intelligent author told me that the two had nothing to do with each other. I was almost surprised but his words seemed to speak to my heart. So my heart listened.
Since then, I have had 18 full years of many, many, MANY experiences and when I look back @ all I thought I’ve learned & been through, Love has always been there. And now I find myself recreating myself “once again” as I open myself to the world with my own personal coaching crusade on the topic of
God Consciousness through Spirituality –
Sex, Money & Relationships,
I find love smack dab in the middle of All that I am & that I am doing. I hope to use this blog to share as much of me
with the universe as has been so freely given to me. (Now because I said “freely given” doesn’t mean that I didn’t pay or a cost or responsibility has not been incurred. I just said it was “freely given”)
Now a days, I’m involved in quite a lot of things as I teach Tai Chi & Qi Gongs & Coach others on various subjects & try my damnest to be a Great example of the Very Wise that have helped me along the way since I’ve been here on planet Earth. As you go along life, you sometimes run into some of these Oh Wise Ones & they’re only around long enough to put some real heavy stuff on you and then “Poof”, they’re gone. Well, one day, I was @ an AARP meeting to do a
Tai Chi for Seniors demonstration & explain the benifits of Tai Chi for seniors. Following the meeting, one of the gentleman from the meeting was talking to me in the parking lot and he left me with one burning commandment.
“DIE EMPTY.”
I was like “Wowwww”. Straight no Chaser. No beating around the bush, just right up in my face; “Die Empty.” I knew what he meant but I still had this perplexed look on my face as if I didn’t understand what he had just said. (I did understand though, CLEARLY) He looked @ me & said “Why take it with you? It won’t fit in the coffin.” (and another jab to the face, BONG) By now, I’m just looking @ him (another angel/extraterrestrial in disguise) as my roledex of other powerful maxims that have been laid on me in the last 20 years, starts to flip flip flip like an encyclopedia that has just fallen down the stairs.
LIVE FREE.
DRUNK MAN SPEAK A TRUE MANS HEART.
POSITIVE ENERGY ALWAYS CREATES ELEVATION.
IT’S BETTER TO REMAIN SILENT THAN TO TELL A TRUTH THAT WILL CAUSE HARM.
WE DON’T MOVE BACKWARDS & WE DON’T BLOCK.
EL ELOH.
I AM IN THE LOVE OF THE ALL & ALL LOVE IS IN ME.
I AM NEVER ALONE.
THE WHOLE UNIVERSE WANTS ME TO SUCCEED.
MONEY COMES TO ME EASILY & FREQUENTLY.
I AM ENOUGH.
And now I got to put this new one in here somewhere. Thanks God. Preciate that one. Heck naw, I didn’t have enough already. One more assignment won’t hurt. I love being me.And thus, I love what I do. (by the way, that’s the number 1 rule of the super rich, loving what you do.) And I’m going to love letting you all experience Coach Khayr in as many aspects as possible.
I’ve been told by some that I have a very advanced personal philosophy and I’m quite sure that this blogging is gonna be quite therapeutic but for days I’ve pondered on what to lead with. Since I have a degree in Professional History, I decided to go with the “sequence of events” policy; let people know a little about my background, what motivates me, where I’m coming from & why I’m doing what I do. Love is the answer to all of these question in one form or another. And then the topics. Oh yeah, the topics are going to be juicy & steamy & informative & thought provoking and a whole lot of other stuff too and they’ll be coming with lots of love & bliss & healing that we so desperately need.
Love has EVERYTHING to do with it.
Thanks so much for taking out your time to let me share. Get comfortable, leave a comment, leave your blog site, light a candle. You’re welcome here.
We’ll Link Soon.
Peace Love Light Abundance
Coach Khayr


Right On! Glad you spoke out your feelings on Love! ; )
Love does have everything to do with it. yes! I loved getting to know you a little bit more in this post. Yes!